Relationship Woes?

Hope for the broken heartedThe good news is GOD LOVES YOU! You are an exquisite painting God created stoke by stroke, adding all of the subtle nuisances that make you unique and precious. What seems like a shut door, an injustice, or betrayal is God’s way of protecting you from more of the same. If you choose to go down that road again, it will result in tears, heartache and pain. Yes, God is protecting you from all of this and while you may have temporary pain, it’s better than being permanently scarred with a wound that won’t heal.

What if?

Also, please rid your mind of the nagging “what if’s”. You may never know the “what if’s” of the future, but if that person has repeatedly lied, cheated and hurt you over and over, chances are the future will be more of the same. You are beautiful inside and out, with a loving spirit and gentle heart. God knows this and he’s protecting you from your bad decisions, “maybe this time…”, “by now they should have it together”, “this time I know it’ll be different”, etc. While some people do change, if they have made the same mistakes, year after year, chances are they won’t. And you can’t move on with “what if” looming in your thoughts.

Maya Angelo once said “If somebody shows you who they are, believe them”. Our problem is we don’t want to. We put on our Rose colored glasses and see what we want to see and make excuses to ourselves and others, for why the person did X,Y and Z. If the writing is on the wall, read it and heed it.

Leaving the Past

It’s time to leave the past behind, “Behold, I will do a new thing,  now it shall spring up. Shall you not know it?” Isaiah 43:19. If you’re doing everything you can to hold onto the past, it’s doubtful that you will ever know what the new thing is. This is your new beginning. Leave the past in the past, along with all of your hurts, anger and emotional wounds. God has something much better for you. Let me say that again, God has something much better for you.

Yes, it may mean being alone for a while, but God has to cut those emotional ties and heal your wounds, else you will always keep that door to your past cracked. Please close that door and ask God to remove any and all reminents of those feelings you have for him/her. God wants that door shut, closed, and sealed. Then, He has to build you up and prepare you for that special someone He may have for you. Don’t throw your future away, because you are still chained to the past. Be done with it once and for all.

Remember, you are beautiful, inside and out. Don’t let someone who dosen’t appreciate you and know your worth keep you down. Lift up your head and wear your crown proudly. After all, you are a Prince/Princess of the king, made in His image. Who would want to mar such a stunning being as you? Only one who doesn’t deserve you!

Letter from the Throne – September 2018

Woman sitting on window sill with words swirling around her (depression, sickness, debt, broken relationships, worry, fear)Many of you are going through fiery trials, right now. You feel like your life is a whirlwind of problems and soon as you solve one, another one blows along. Your marriage may be hanging by a thread, job issues or no job at all, stress, grief, broken relationships, addictions, health challenges, or financial woes.  …

Churchgoer, Saved or a Disciple. Do you Know the Difference?

Saved, Churchgoer or Disciple Churchgoer

Many people attend church services Sunday or Saturday and walk away completely satisfied that they’ve met their spiritual obligation for the week. We put on our church face, our Sunday Best, perfume/cologne and of course throw out our favorite spiritual lines…I’m Blessed and highly favored, Praise the Lord, I’m too blessed to be stressed. Sound familiar?

Letter from the Throne – August 2018

Paper with writing on it, a pen and diamonds  Hello,

Are you seeking fellowship (communion, intimacy, closeness)  with me today? I’m seeking  Fellowship with you. Yes, sometimes I allow pressures to come on you through trials and hardships, but it’s to help you grow; there’s a diamond on the of inside you, and I’m trying to bring it out. The process involves you being hidden deep, far beneath the earth, and undergoing intense heat and pressure, but it’s to bring out your brilliance and shine.

Are we Living in Faith or Feelings?

Have Faith
Oftentimes, we need numerous confirmations, goose bumps, and prophecies to believe God’s urging to start the ministry, start the business, take action on a court case, start saving, or to believe for healing. We tend to look for an outward sign, instead of believing and stepping out on faith. We listen to our feelings, instead of God. …

Happy 4th of July

Independence Day

Hope you are enjoying this Forth of July!  If you are celebrating at a cookout with family and friends, relaxing at the beach or just enjoying the day off, don’t forget to include God in your plans. After all, because of His son, Jesus’ death and resurrection, we received true independence and freedom over 2,000 years ago.
What are we free from?
  • Penalties of sin ( Romans 8:1-2)
  • Kingdom of darkness (Colossians 1:13)
  • Enemies (Luke 1:71,74; 1 John 5:18)
  • Death (1 Corinthians 15:54-55
  • and more
Now that’s really independence!
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